When it comes to estate planning, even the most carefully crafted plans can unravel, especially when human relationships and family dynamics come into play. 

Recent headlines highlight how complicated even well-funded, well-intentioned estate plans can become. Media mogul Rupert Murdoch and the estate of the late singer Jimmy Buffett both utilized Trusts, one of the most common tools in estate planning, yet still became entangled in complex legal disputes.These cases are cautionary tales of what can happen when planning fails to anticipate future disagreements.

We’re currently in the midst of the largest wealth transfer in U.S. history, with Baby Boomers passing on an estimated $70 trillion by 2042. With that comes a sharp rise in estate litigation. In New York alone, contested estate cases jumped 350% between 2016 and 2019. These aren’t just legal squabbles, they’re emotional, expensive, and can erode family relationships and wealth alike.

So what goes wrong?

In Murdoch’s case, a once-ironclad irrevocable Trust granted equal voting rights over his media empire to four children. Over time, Murdoch wanted to pivot control to his oldest son, Lachlan, while preserving financial equality among the siblings. But without the ability to amend the Trust easily, that shift led to legal battles and a ruling that both father and son acted in “bad faith.”

Similarly, Buffett’s use of a marital Trust seemed sound on paper. However, naming Co-Trustees with equal power, without a clear system for resolving disputes, has led to gridlock and, ultimately, dueling lawsuits.

These examples don’t signal a failure of Trusts as a tool. Rather, they show the importance of governance, structure, and foresight. A Trust is only as strong as the plan behind it.

Here are a few tips to help avoid these pitfalls:

• Be cautious with Co-Trustees. While naming multiple children as equal Trustees may feel fair, it can actually increase the risk of conflict. One strong, trusted individual, perhaps with a backup, often works better.

• Build in structure. A well-drafted Trust should include decision-making frameworks: tie-breakers, clear roles, and rules for what happens if Trustees disagree.

• Understand control trade-offs. Irrevocable Trusts offer tax advantages and asset protection but come with limited flexibility. Make sure you’re comfortable giving up some control.

• Consider jurisdiction. Trust laws vary by state. States like Nevada offer favorable laws around asset protection and flexibility, an option worth exploring.

• Plan for change. Relationships evolve, laws shift, and financial priorities change. Your estate plan should be reviewed regularly to reflect those realities.

Ultimately, a successful estate plan isn’t just about documents, it’s about designing a plan that accounts for real-life dynamics, clear communication, and long-term strategy.

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